The past few weeks have certainly seen many of the mighty fall. Ed McMahon, Farrah Fawcett, Steve McNair, oh yeah…Michael Jackson (could you have missed that one on the news?). While many conversations have taken place around the water coolers and social media sites, most of them I have noticed have not been very redemptive. At times when our heroes fall, there are so many mixed emotions. We think back to a show, a poster, a game, a song, and it brings back so many memories. It also evokes emotions, and emotions can be powerful forces indeed. When emotions are heightened, people are listening. People are more open. And at such times, it would be great if someone could step into the conversation and be redemptive. Bring the Larger Story to bear. Express struggles, confusion, doubts, and listen to others do the same. And NOT have all the answers…especially the nicely packaged religious answers. Usually the right questions will lead people who are not Christ-followers on a journey to answers for themselves. What do you think this guy valued in life? Who do you think was important to him or her? What are you learning from those who are now coping with the loss of this person? What does the loss of this great person show us about our own hopes and desires? Without a lot of work, you’ve even got a great small group meeting in the making. Hey, people are listening already and ready to talk. I can’t think if a better way to honor the memory of our heroes than to allow their lives to be a bridge to redemption for someone who’s still in the battle.
July 10, 2009
When Heroes FallPosted by Nomad under Community, Missional, Outreach, Redemptive Community, Small Groups | Tags: Christ-followers, confusion, conversation, desire, doubt, Ed McMahon, emotions, Farrah Fawcett, Heroes, hopes, Larger Story, Michael Jackson, redemptive, small group meeting, social media, Steve McNair, struggles, the battle |
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